How to Send Anonymous Gifts

How to Send Anonymous Gifts: A Simple Step-by-Step Guide

Sending an anonymous gift is a heartwarming way to brighten someone’s day. Along with the physical gift, these mysterious surprises spread happiness, gratitude, and the feeling of being special—all without recognition for the sender. In this guide, we’ll uncover when and how to send anonymous gifts so your recipient receives the joy and attention they deserve.

When to Send an Anonymous Gift

When to Send an Anonymous Gift

Sending a gift anonymously can be a fun twist to any gifting occasion. But there are times when it is better suited than others. These are some of the top occasions where an anonymous gift may be the perfect gesture to make your recipient feel special.

  • Secret Santa – A classic anonymous gift exchange, Secret Santa gifts are a fun way to spread holiday cheer.
  • Romantic Gestures – Whether from a secret admirer or a partner, an anonymous gift is a beautiful way to express your feelings.
  • Special Occasions – Be it a birthday, retirement party, or other important milestone, an anonymous gift makes the occasion even more memorable.
  • Appreciation – An anonymous gift to a mentor is a nice way to thank them. It acknowledges their impact without requiring a response.
  • Random Act of Kindness—In tough times, an anonymous gift can support and remind someone they are valued.

5 Steps To Sending an Anonymous Gift

Sending an Anonymous Gift Steps

Step 1: Choosing the Perfect Gift – 3 Anonymous Gift Ideas

A thoughtful, anonymous gift starts with choosing what to include. Ideally, you tailor the gift to your recipient's unique interests and tastes without being too specific to give away your identity. Here are some popular gift options to inspire your anonymous gesture.

  1. Wine Gifts – Filled with their favourite bottles and wine accessories, wine gifts are a great way to surprise a wine lover.
  2. Sweet Treats – Who doesn’t love a delivery of sweet treats? Whether it’s artisanal chocolate or gourmet sweets, this thoughtful gift is perfect for any occasion.
  3. Spa Gifts – A care package of scented candles, bath salts, and luxury lotions is a subtle way to deliver relaxation to someone who could use it the most.
  4. Gift Cards – If unsure what to get, a gift card to their favourite store or restaurant can be a reliable, anonymous gift.
  5. DIY Gift Basket – For a personalized touch, consider sending a DIY gift basket. You can tailor it to your recipient’s tastes, starting with these unique gift basket ideas to inspire your creation.

Step 2: Writing a Thoughtful Message

The tricky part of sending an anonymous gift is writing a thoughtful message. It should express your feelings without revealing too much that could identify you.

The best way to write an anonymous message that is still impactful is by keeping the personal sentiment brief and concise. Then, you can add a meaningful poem or quote that will have the best impression on the gift recipient.

Include the message in the gift for a warming pick-me-up, and don’t forget to type it out to avoid identification through handwriting.

Wrapping Anonymous Gifts

Step 3: Wrapping the Present

With the contents of the gift picked out, you next need to wrap them all together in aesthetic packaging. Collect everything in a box or basket or wrap everything individually for a series of anonymous gifts to be delivered over time.

For Secret Santa, ensure all of your gifts are wrapped in the same gift paper. This serves as a mysterious signature for added intrigue. Otherwise, try to avoid using any gifting decorations you have used in the past, as they may be recognized by your recipient and used to identify you.

Step 4: Finding the Right Distributor

The key to successfully sending a gift anonymously is choosing the right distribution channel. Here are some of the easiest shipping options to get your gift to its recipient without your name on the package.

  • Online Retailers – When purchasing a gift online, such as a wine gift box, you simply put the name and mailing address of your recipient. You may need to fill in your information under payment details, but you can get around this by using a prepaid credit card for complete anonymity.
  • Gift Delivery Services – Some services let you choose a gift from their selection and send it anonymously. This is great and can be done all online, but it loses some of the personalization that comes with creating the gift yourself.
  • Post Office Mailing—Anonymous gifts can be sent through the post office without a return address. Keep in mind that if something happens, like a torn shipping label, the package cannot be returned, and the gift will be lost.

Step 5: Wait for the Delivery & Act Surprised 

You may think your gifting journey is done once the package is out for delivery. But the hardest part of anonymous gifting comes after they receive their present. When giving someone a gift, you’re naturally going to have questions. Did they like it or even receive it? 

The problem is that you can't ask these questions without giving away the fact that you are the one who sent it. In some cases, your recipient may suspect you anyway and call you to confirm. In this scenario, you can either claim the action or, if you want to remain anonymous, practice deniability and act surprised.

Even if you never hear about the gift again, you can rest easy. You have likely delivered one of the most memorable presents they will ever receive, and they won’t even know it.

Tips for Anonymous Gifting

3 Tips for Anonymous Gifting

If you are planning on sending an anonymous gift, here are a few tips to ensure the process goes smoothly.

  1. Don’t Use a Pseudonym – Unless you are using an obvious anonymous name like Secret Santa, using a fake name may result in them attributing the gift to someone else.
  2. Avoid Personal Anecdotes – A gift message that hints at an inside joke may reveal the sender.
  3. Use Your Recipient's Info for the Return Address – If the delivery requires a return shipping address, use the recipient's. This avoids tracing it back to you.

Sending an Anonymous Gift With Wine Club Canada

Wine Club Canada makes sending an anonymous gift easy. Simply choose the wine gift basket or wine gift subscription you want to send, add a personal note, and set the contact information as your recipient's. We will take care of the rest. Our gift boxes contain a curated selection of bottles from participating wineries and are wrapped elegantly for a memorable gift that will lift their spirits with each delivery.

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